Resolve The Mother wound A powerful woman's guide to putting herself first

Learn how the mother wound is stopping you from cultivating your dream life.

You’re a strong, independent woman and you thrive under pressure. 

You never ask for help anymore because you can do it better and you would rather not be disappointed.  

But as the years have gone by you realize how lonely you feel.

You feel intense resentment towards your partner.

You feel like no matter what you do it’s just never enough. 

I get it.

That was me too.

Until I healed The Mother Wound and redefined how I mother.

Motherhood has always been about self-sacrifice until now.

You weren’t taught how to Mother The Self while mothering. Therefore as much as you know you should take care of yourself, The Mother Wound makes it impossible to do. You must first rewire the code to Mother The Self First.

What is The Mother Wound?

Written by: the Editors of goop Updated: March 16, 2017 Reviewed by: Dr. Oscar Serrallach

“At the macro level, the mother wound is a matrilineal wound—a burden that manifests in mothers, and is passed on from generation to generation. It’s the pain and grief that grow in a woman as she tries to explore and understand her power and potential in a society that doesn’t make room for either, forcing her to internalize the dysfunctional coping mechanisms learned by previous generations of women. The mother wound reflects the challenges a woman faces as she goes through transformations in her life in a society where the patriarchy has denied us ongoing matrilineal knowledge and structures”.

The loneliness you feel on the inside is not your fault, there is nothing wrong with you. 

You were simply living, loving, working and mothering the way you were taught to. Your ‘code’ for how to mother was passed down to you. It’s not all bad I know. Your mom is a badass and you have much respect for her and what she has overcome. But still, you feel disconnected from her. 

The Mother Wound is a wound because it carries pain, guilt, shame and trauma with it. It is a deep wound you can experience as a child without realizing the impacts as a mother yourself. 

The Mother Wound must be resolved and if you’re here reading this I have a sense it’s your turn to heal it. 

I will lead you through the foundations of resolving The Mother Wound so you can resolve the resentment in your marriage.

  • The Generational Code

    It didn’t start with you. Here we will discover where you learned this code and how you can take back your power and do it differently for you and your family.

  • The Motherhood Code

    Learn how to break the habit of toxic self care and shift to Mothering The Self in motherhood so you can create lasting transformation in your daily life experiences.

  • The Queen Code

    Learn how to embody your inner Queen archetype and how to shift between the duality of masculine and feminine energies so you can live guilt free and on your terms.

“This was the most valuable thing I’ve done for myself in a very long time. Nicole is knowledgeable and passionate and I connected with everything she shared. My biggest takeaway is dispelling the idea that as Moms we must do it all alone, we can have it all! The content covered was amazing. More than I expected”

I Know You…

  • You want to do it differently than your mom did

  • You want to be present for your children, partner and career.

  • You want to live intentionally and on purpose

  • You crave balance and ease between how hard you work and how much you play

  • You are an independent woman who unapologetically desires to have it all and isn’t afraid to do the work to claim it.

  • You are ready and willing to trust yourself fully and receive more abundance, radiance, and happiness

It all starts with a decision to resolve the mother wound and redefine how you live for yourself first.

Meet Nicole Weston

Hi love! I am so excited you are here! My name is Nicole Weston and I am a Life Coach for working moms,  a self-proclaimed self love expert and trauma aware coach. I LOVE love! I’ve been guiding moms for the last 10+ years.

I've helped 100's of mothers who have LOST THEMSELVES since becoming a mother to rediscover WHO they are, WHAT makes them come alive, and to REDEFINE THEIR PURPOSE, so they can triple their power and potential as a working mom.

We are SO much more than moms and my mission is to totally redefine motherhood so each woman can experience her potentiality in love, worth and life.

I love sharing my story from how I went from unlovable and desperate to loving myself deeply and manifesting my soulmate 3 months after.  Today, 10 years later we are still passionately in love and growing deeper together as we raise our daughter.