Can’t Call Your Mom
Mothering Without a Map? Rediscover Who You Are.
Community, Connection & Coaching for motherless mothers who desire to transform their relationship with grief so they can mother, lead, and live with more confidence, peace, and love.
When your mom dies, the world doesn’t just lose a person; you lose your internal map.
For a long time, you navigated life, your career, your motherhood, your relationships with an unspoken understanding of who you were. But suddenly, the ground has shifted. You are showing up for your kids, your work, and your life, but you feel like a stranger in your own story. You aren’t "broken", you are simply in a season of profound identity collapse.
You aren't struggling because you’ve lost your ambition; you’re struggling because the woman you were before the loss doesn't know how to navigate the woman you are becoming.
300+ Transformations | 14 yrs
QCP™ Practitioner
Trauma Conscious Coach
Somatic Practitioner
Trained Social Worker
The Motherless Mother Program
From Identity Rupture to Integration
We don’t "get over" this loss. We integrate it.
My work is to help you move through the "in-between space" of grief so you can stop performing the roles you used to play and start claiming the woman you are becoming today.
How we do the work:
The Re-Mapping: Identifying the "old map" you inherited and building a new, authentic internal guide for your life.
The Integration: Weaving the wisdom of who you were with the power of who you are now, so you don't have to leave parts of yourself behind.
The Embodiment: Recoding your nervous system to hold your grief and your growth at the same time, allowing you to lead with your whole heart.
My 10 Practices for Connecting with Mom
For the days when you need her most and can't pick up the phone. I put together my top 10 practices I have used to connect in with my mom so I can feel her energy around me. These practices have helped me co-create a relationship with her and it brings me peace and comfort.
LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
LISTEN TO THE PODCAST
Tune into the Can’t Call Your Mom Podcast
I started this podcast because I was searching for a place I could bring ALL of me. A mom. A wife. A business owner. A motherless mother. A woman who was grieving and ambitious at the same time and felt all the things about both.
I did the deep soul-level work and found an integrated version of myself, of all of me. I’m no longer living in parts, I feel grounded, in it all.
Not healed.
Not transformed.
Grounded in me. The woman I am now and who I am becoming.
THE MOST POPULAR EPISODES
Episode 001
For The Motherless Mother Who Is Finding Her Way Home
Episode 002
The Things We Never Got To Say… A Voicemail to Mom
Episode 003
The Rage No One Talks About After Your Mother Dies
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Live Community Call: She's Dead. Now what? June 11 at 12pm ET
You kept going after she died. You held it together, kept showing up, kept mothering, working, leading. Now you're wondering left who am I now and why does everything still feel so heavy?
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Join the 4 o' Clock Club
What is the 4o’Clock Club? A community of motherless mothers who are living, loving and leading in their life after their mom died. You see my mom called me everyday at 4pm and five years later I still reach for the phone so we can chat. But we can’t because she died. Each week I will send you some love, a new podcast epsiode, thoughts on my mind, insights all in the name of honouring who we were and who we are becoming as motherless mothers. I am honoured you are here.
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Can't Call Your Mom Gathering: In person event
An Intimate Evening for Motherless Mothers in Barrie, Ontario
One evening dedicated to honouring the maternal line and moving grief forward for the woman who is living, loving and leading after losing her mom.
This evening was made for the woman who is doing all of it mothering, leading, building, loving — while carrying a grief that most of the world doesn't have space for.